Independence statements |
“It’s being able to manage your own life.” |
“I think what we’ve really got to be a bit more careful about is not getting to the stage where you let people do everything for you.” |
“…I’m not a baby, I’m not an imbecile, I’m a fully grown adult, I just can’t see.” |
“Not having to rely on other people to get where you need to go.” |
“I miss the freedom of driving a car. I used to love to go and explore.” |
Self-actualization statements |
“I would not have had the experience if I hadn’t lost my vision; overall, my life is richer, I’m meeting more people….” |
“I have achieved more than I could ever dream of doing with help, with all the help I’ve had, there’s a great sense of achievement in what I’ve done.” |
“I have learnt…how to be assertive and if I need help I am not nervous to seek help.” |
“…because I’ve made the effort and can do it, I think I’ve got the confidence to do it.” |
“…in mixed groups where you would stand out as being different, the effect it has on me is to make me an educator.” |
Social relationship statements |
“It’s difficult to just pop over and visit someone and because you can’t reciprocate you lose friends; they just drift away” |
“…people talk to my mum instead of me, like I am not even there.” |
“The worst problem I have found is people being overprotective.” |
“I withdrew from mixing with strangers.” |
“I think relationships with family are much closer.” |
Emotional well-being statements |
“It got to one stage at home, I broke down in tears and started screaming…I felt a whole lot better after that.” |
“Having confidence is a very big part of whether I feel at all happy.” |
“I was very angry that I couldn’t see and do the things that I wanted to do.” |
“I still feel a great sense of loss and sometimes I really grieve.” |
“Frustrated because you can’t get and keep a proper job so you are financially disadvantaged.” |
Physical well-being statements |
“I had a big fall recently and broke a vertebrae in my back.” |
“The side effects of drugs taken to preserve vision were worse than the vision loss.” |
“The fact of not being able to see properly is very tiring because you have to concentrate whether you’re in the house and doubly so when you are outside the house.” |
“It is not only difficult to cope with impaired vision, but other disabilities come.” |
“I’d be happy to go along the way I am if I don’t face the prospect of getting worse.” |
Planning, organization and strategic development statements |
“You have to rely on other people to get where you need to go, so you have to organize that.” |
“You always have to have money in your wallet for a taxi.” |
“A routine is important, especially have things in certain places and other people not coming in and moving them from that spot.” |
“If I went to an area I did not know, I had to plan before I went out.” |
“It takes such a long time waiting for taxis or waiting for public transport.” |